Well here we go, my first blog, now that I finally have something interesting enough to write about. That's not to say that what I've done previously is uninteresting, it's more that for a long time now, I haven't done any 'firsts', I was lucky enough to become friends with some very knowledgeable, kind and hot people who took me through more or less the whole spectrum of play and sex pretty early on in my journey.
So I was delighted when I got my first chance to top a boy on Saturday night. I'm not new to topping, and in fact have been pretty much only topping in play for the last 6 months or so, but this would be the very first time I would top a boy, one on one, in any kind of a scene. I'm not talking about times when I may have helped hold a guy down or was one of the people that spanked a man who was restrained, but the first time I've ever been able to take a boy that was a bottom, restrain him, and do delightful, yet evil things to him.
it started at Subversion, a well known Kink Club in London, I was going with a couple of people I knew for a birthday celebration. two of them, a couple, were people I'd met at a previous club night and chatted to online a fair bit, but didn't know that well in real life, so the getting ready and going to the club were a great way of chatting and seeing where interests lay.
Now I'm quite proud of my Kitbag. it's not the most comprehensive one I've seen, but there's still a good amount of variety in it, from Floggers to whips, Electrics to Butt Plugs. so when the girl of the couple, Playtime, suggested we should look at my stuff, ostensibly for the benefit of the two newcomers, I couldn't see a reason not to. as I was showing my stuff around I couldn't help but think this was for Playtime to build up excitement of what might occur.
Later on, after we had plodded around the club more than once, and the play space was a bit quieter (for the opening hours of the club it was absolutely rammed), I made my, incredibly passive, move. I was standing next to Playtime and Bambi, the male part of the couple, and saw a St Andrew's Cross not being used, I then said to Playtime "That cross needs someone on it". I didn't say it forlornly, or hopefully, but I did say it with intent. it then worked. she moved off and stood next to Bambi, and they chatted for a few minutes. I couldn't have heard them if I tried due to the loud music playing, so I decided to just busy myself with people watching. a couple of minutes later she came back and asked 'what did you say about that cross?' I repeated my earlier statement, she then said, also with intent, "Bambi?" all I could reply was "yes". so we led him to the cross and strapped him in.
Now I just want to confirm that Bambi is the Beautiful Boy mentioned in the title. he is gorgeous. I have some hot friends but this is one of the prettiest boys I have ever met, so it's an understatement to say that he was someone I wanted to play with. also, his outfit, a kind of sexy-not-scary version of Frank-N-Furter just added to this whole Gender Queer appeal of his.
I won't give a blow by blow account of what I did to him, but I will give you the Cliff Notes. I gave him a good varied beating, using my matching pair of floggers, Electrified Wartenburg Wheel, spanking, some slapping and punching, and even a little bit of breath control thrown in. about half way through all this, Playtime touched me on the shoulder and said "you know you can kiss him don't you?". I think my grin went from ear to ear. suffice to say I didn't need more encouragement, though I still made sure to tease him to the last possible moment before our lips met and I thrust my tongue into his welcoming mouth.
When I felt he had had enough (this being his first experience in public, and as far as I'm aware his first experience not with his girlfriend) I took him down and let him sit down away from the play area, and made sure he was alright. He was.
Afterwards I got lots of compliments about the play, mostly from our group of friends (the new 'straight' guy found it oddly compelling he said) and I got the best from Playtime and Bambi, saying they both loved it, and that according to Bambi I am very good at judging thresholds. that's something to remember for the future.
The most Interesting compliment however, was from a guy that came up to me afterwards. he told me that he was a straight top, but that seeing the two of us playing together was one of the most beautiful things that he had ever seen at a club. it made me feel very proud, for both myself and that Bambi had come through it feeling so good.
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Delicious!
ReplyDeleteI love the various sides to you, I wanna kiss you again some day x